A MORNING RANT!!!

This is how I felt when I read her blog.

So as I am surfing the web and looking for interesting articles to read, and I come across a particular one that caught my eye. Why this mommy hates mommy blogs. Sounds interesting right? I am sitting here thinking there is no way this lady is going to down talk other moms or judge others for their opinions as a mother. Boy was I sadly mistaking. Literally as soon as I began to read "It has to be said -- mommy blogs and mommy-knows-best social media posts are the biggest enemies mommies like myself face" I was a bit taken aback by her start. Yes her title can draw you in, but her start makes you want to leave. How can you say mommy blogs are a moms enemy? I just don't understand.

If you take everything a person writes (might I add it is their blog for their thoughts) and take it personally then you are your own worst enemy. Please don't blame anyone else for you lack of self confidence as a mother. It wont do you any good or the others around you. Mommy blogs are to empower and help others out. It is a place that allows you to let loose, and feel good about oneself.

So what if you couldn't breastfeed, your not a horrible mother. Just because a person posts that they believe if you didn't breastfeed your baby then you are committing a crime against humanity. That is from their perspective. If you feel guilty that's on you. At least you attempted to try. We cant all be mommy milk machines, and that is okay. But, to sit and bash mothers that want to do a little something for themselves beside just that of a stay at home mom is ridiculous.

I know the reason that I wanted to do a mommy blog was so I could connect with other mothers. I stay at home with three beautiful children all day and sometimes want a little something for just me. That's okay. I give my all to them in hopes that I am raising them right and that one day they will become the strong independent adults God wants them to be. God forbid they grow up, finish college and want to become a parent and blogger. A person with your opinion might tare them down. Its not right nor is acceptable.

I know this is a bit of a rant, that's why I titled it what I did. I cant for the life of me understand how you can say  "No, we are not haters" but, your whole blog is judging the women that are doing something they see fit to do in order to reach someone going through what they already have. Mommy bloggers don't think that we are better than the next mom. That is not are goal when we started up our blogs. I speak for most mom, are intensions are to give back what we have learned and connect with other strong women.

Moms have the hardest jobs ever, it is 24/7 and are children aren't born with handbooks attached on how to raise them. We do it based on pure instinct. As a mom I am going on the record to say " Stop mommy bashing each other" for that matter " Stop women bashing". Is it not enough for men to degrade us because of how many children we have, or leave women to be single mothers. Now we want to hurt each other. with the words that we say and or write. It is time that we stick together and show the world how strong God has made us. We may have the hardest job, but is the most rewarding.

Signed in as a pissed off mom at the start of this blog
Signing off as a cool cucumber!!!